| Location | Kettering |
| Age | 0 |
| Date of Birth | 10/2004 |
| Date of Death | 10/2004 |
| Visitors | 2,121 since 22/03/2007 |
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Our little boy, Blake, was born on 18 October 2004 at Kettering General Hospital. Everything seemed fine at first, and it was only much later we discovered he had had hypothermia and the midwife had chosen to ignore this, and other concerns raised at the time, because she was 'too busy'. He had collapsed when we thought he was sleeping, and despite the paediatricians best efforts to save him he died that same day.
Life will never be the same for us, and if i had not had my other little boy Ruben to take care of, i think i would have gone with Blake. He was so beautiful, and so loved, i cannot understand why he was taken from us. I visit his grave and talk to him. We played 'If I could turn back the hands of time' at his funeral, and I so wish I could.
The Midwife
2011 update...the midwife involved in Blake's death is currently under investigation for 'serious, numerous and complex failings'. Guess that means more babies have died since Blake, I knew it would happen and could not believe it when the NMC let her continue working as a midwife. He would be here today if it was not for her.
Happy Birthday
Hello my darling, another year has passed and you will be 7 years old tomorrow. I often wonder how different our lives would be if you had lived, I like to believe everything happens for a reason...you must have died for a reason, right? Maybe one day I will know the answer, but for now I can only wish you a virtual happy birthday and cry because I will always love you and miss you so much xxx mummy xxx
Happy Birthday
Hello my little darling, its your mummy. I love and miss you so much still sweetheart, and i feel so sad that you aren't here with me. its your 4th birthday this saturday and the first one where i cannot spend all day with you up at the crem. I feel terrible about it, i'm so sorry my special boy but i will be thinking about you and keeping your picture close to me. You are in my heart forever and ever xxx
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I am sorry for your loss I really am. Your little Baby is with all the other little ones that have sadly had to leave us .. I wish it were different for you all I really do.
Take care of yourself.
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With Love
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I’m sending this to you
To say how much you mean to me
I’m so lonely when your not around
Please read as it says it all
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Pass this hug to all of your friends
And back to me, see how many
You get back!
1-5 HUGS….Your on someones mind!
5-10 HUGS…Someone likes you!
10-15 HUGS..Someone loves you very much
15-20 HUGS..WOW! You are really loved a lot
BET YOU GET LOADS BACK BECAUSE
YOUR AN ANGEL HERE ON EARTH
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Hello darling
Hello sweetie how r u doing, My little girl has now joined you in the lovely garden where you all are . Thats Macy. Sending you lots of love xxxxx
What a beautiful baby boy
I hope you dont mind me stopping by and saying hello, my twins Courtney and Harvey are sleeping in the same baby-garden as Blake, and when i saw his name i recognised it straight away.
Just wanted to send you love on this special day
xxx
Blake and Alfie
to the 2 most special little boys who play side by side now, inseperable, the best of friends forever
go and play now, a lifetime of games and sticky buns and only good things, knowing that both your mummys are watching over you and keeping you safe forever, we are always there for you, when you look back to check its ok, you see us both sitting together talking and smiling back to you, reassuring you that we are still here and everything is safe, we are always going to be there for you both forever
Huge hug Angie, alfie has just turned 3 and blake will be 3 in a few days, they brought us together and for that im grateful, but we both know they shouldnt be there, they should be home with us ......
will this ever get any easier ............... i dont think it ever will x
Thinking of you from one mum to another.XXX
A Mother's love
A last goodbye,
A kiss to the wind,
No one knows,
The pain I am in.
I ache to hold you,
To kiss your face,
And now you are gone,
Without a trace.
But memories I hold,
Deep in my heart,
My love remains strong,
We shall never be apart.
Fly with the angels,
And feel no more pain,
I will love you each moment,
Till we meet once again.
WeeMan.
i feel so sorry for yure loss of a gorgeous son, god bless him and i hope he is having a good time with the guardian angels in heaven, r.i.p xxx
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